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      5 Mar 2012

      Child Support Evaders photos on website, (and other consequences of non-payment)

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      The Texas Attorney General Child Support Division exists to collect child support for Texas children.  Child support evaders who go "underground" to avoid making child support payments may find their photos and descriptions on the Texas Attorney General website.  The Evaders program asks for help in finding these child support evaders and features a toll-free number to call with information.

      Other consequences of non-payment of child support can include:

      1. felony criminal prosecution and jail in some cases

      2. confiscation of tax refund

      3. inability to renew Texas Driver's License

      4. inability to renew passport or negative effect on immigration status

      5. civil warrants and lawsuits

      6. liens against property

      7. loss of respect

      Orders to pay child support are valid and should not be ignored. The moral obligation to support a child should be enough but everyone should be aware that there are very serious legal consequences as well.

      Kalish Law Office, The Woodlands, Texas  "Passionate, Professional and Personal. We Make the Difference." Since 1984

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      20 Dec 2011

      Assisted Living Resources Online

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      In previous blog posts, I have written about resources that are available to help elder family members.   The previous blog posts discussed how to best communicate, how to find AARP resources, hospice care, Meals on Wheels, Alzheimer Resources, and contained other important links. Another online resources is the web publishing company Assisted Living Today.  

      After the publication of the last blog post, a reader who works with Assisted Living Today (an online web publishing company) contacted me and gave me permission to share the informational guides on that website with our readers.

       In September, 2011, the site posted an infographic about nursing home closures in the U.S. which shows a visual breakdown of the impact of the growing elderly population and diminishing available nursing homes.

      That site contains a lot of information, including an  Assisted Living Care Guide

      And additional guides:

      • Memory Care Guide
      • Nursing Home Guide
      • Care Home Guide
      • Independent Living Guide

      Decisions regarding a loved one's care are difficult to make and the choices and options may seem overwhelming. Having access to information and resources is important in making the best choices.

      Thank you to Katelyn Roberts, Assisted Living Today.  Disclaimer: Kalish Law Office is not associated with Assisted Living Today and did not receive any compensation for this blog post.  Kalish Law Office does not endorse Assisted Living Today and has not reviewed the content of Assisted Living Today for accuracy.  This blog post is merely presented as an informational option to assist our readers in gathering information.


      Kalish Law Office is located in The Woodlands, Texas, north of Houston.   “Passionate, Professional and Personal. We Make the Difference.” Since 1984  www.kalishlawtexas.com  281-363-3700

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      3 Mar 2011

      The Risks of Refinancing Your Home With Your Spouse or Partner

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      WARNING!  Joining in the refinancing of a home previously owned by your spouse or significant other does not guarantee that you actually “own” part of the house.

       

      Signing the Promissory Note DOES mean that you are legally responsible to pay the mortgage on the property. However, it does NOT mean that the property is automatically in your name, or that if your spouse dies you will automatically inherit all or part of the property.

      Here is a specific example that could contain a nasty surprise waiting somewhere down the line:

       

      Husband has three adult children by a previous marriage. He is divorced from Wife #1, and he owns his home, which is in his own name.   He then marries Wife #2.  


      Husband and Wife #2 evaluate their joint financial situation.  They decide that it would be financially helpful to them if they were to refinance the home that they live in. They apply for, and are granted a new mortgage.  It is at a better interest rate, especially since Wife #2 is a co-borrower. Husband and Wife #2 both sign the refinance agreement, but there is no deed filed in the county records which gives part ownership of the home to Wife #2.


      The couple goes along happily with their life.   Then, Husband dies suddenly, and without a will. 

      Under Texas law, his prior children inherit the ownership of the home, since the deed is in his name and it is his separate property. 

       

      Wife #2 does have a “life estate”, which means that she is allowed to live in the same home that her stepchildren now own. Under the paperwork she signed with the mortgage company, she is still obligated to pay the mortgage, but the home is not in her name and she cannot pass the home or any portion of it on to her own descendants. If she chooses to just walk away from the home, she is leaving behind the money that she and her deceased husband have already put into it, and her stepchildren don’t have to compensate her.

       

      This is a sobering set of facts, but unfortunately it is very common.


      It is very unlikely that the Husband in the example wanted this to happen.   It is more likely that he wanted Wife #2 to own 100% of the house upon his death. 

       

      The situation could have been avoided in two ways. First of all, a properly drafted and filed deed would have protected Wife #2, because it would have given her immediate rights and ownership in the property.  It would have legally given her her own portion, regardless of whether the Husband lived or died. 


      Secondly, the Husband could have had a valid will, which would have spelled out exactly what was to be done with his 50% upon his death. 

       

      It is important for everyone to understand all of the consequences of refinancing property. It is especially when dealing with second marriages, stepfamily issues, and non-traditional families. Couples who are in same-sex partnerships and cannot legally marry each other and couples who are unsure of their "common law" status or choose not to marry can be especially vulnerable to these problems.  A timely legal consult can avoid serious problems and unpleasant surprises later on.

       

      Kalish Law Office has been representing clients in family law and real estate law since 1984.  Located in The Woodlands, north of Houston, Texas.  281-363-3700.  www.kalishlawtexas.com

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      25 Jan 2011

      What You Want to Know About Termination of Parental Rights in Texas

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      Certain legal conditions must be met before parental rights are terminated by court order.


      There are two types of termination; voluntary and involuntary.

       

      A voluntary termination of parental rights occurs when the parent whose rights are being terminated agrees with the termination, cooperates, and signs the proper paperwork and/or appears in court and testifies that s/he is voluntarily giving up rights.


      An involuntary termination occurs when the parent whose rights are being terminated is not in agreement with the termination. This can occur when the parent actively opposes the termination, stands by passively and allows it to happen, is absent with whereabouts unknown, or refuses to respond to the suit.

       

      Even if an absent parent cannot be found to be served with a lawsuit terminating rights, there are certain legal steps that can be taken to give “legal notice” without “actual notice”.  Translating from “Legalese” to “English”, this means that just because a person is missing or hiding, the termination may still go on.  If the termination is in the best interests of the child the judge can make that decision.

       

      Specific legal steps must be taken to locate a missing party.  There will also be an attorney appointed to represent the interests of the missing parent. 

       

      Termination is not a given.  A judge can refuse to terminate parental rights if the judge believes that it is not in the best interests of the child to do so.  This can happen even if both parents are in total agreement about the termination. 

       

      Here are three common situations involving termination of parental rights:

       

      1. Adoption.   In order for a child to be adopted, he or she must be available for adoption and (except in an orphan situation) that will involve terminating the parental rights of one or both biological parents.   Step parent adoptions will commonly require the termination of rights of one biological parent.
      2. Abuse, Neglect or Danger.   Parental rights can be terminated for abuse or neglect or to prevent harm to the child.  Child Protective Services may be involved in these cases.
      3. Non support, no contact, abandonment, lack of acknowledgment.  In some circumstances a parent can lose his/her rights by not supporting, visiting or acknowledging the child.

       

      Parental rights are protected by law, and the terminations of those rights are not taken lightly.  Many legal steps must be performed in order for a termination to be granted. The primary consideration is the health, safety, support and well-being of the child involved.

       

      Kalish Law Office in The Woodlands Texas has been representing clients in cases involving termination, adoption, paternity, and parental rights for over 26 years.  www.kalishlawtexas.com  281-363-3700  “Passionate Professional and Personal. We Make the Difference.”

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      5 Oct 2010

      Do I Need a Premarital Agreement? (Prenup) | The Woodlands, Texas Lawyers

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      Premarital agreements are also called Prenuptial Agreements, or “Prenups”.   Most couples who decide on a premarital agreement do so for one or more of the following reasons; a) there is a disparity in their assets, b) there is a disparity in the amount of debts owed, c) they want to preserve all or a portion of the premarital assets for their already existing children or family, d) and/or this is not a first marriage.

       

      The Texas Constitution defines marital property and separate property. All income earned or property obtained after marriage (other than that gained by gift, inheritance, or certain parts of a personal injury settlement or award) is community property, unless there is a very specific legal agreement to the contrary.  In order to change that designation, the couple may sign a contract to do so.  

       

      \In some situations one of the partners may have a large amount of debt and may not want to negatively affect the new spouse.  The law states that a prenuptial agreement may not be entered into with the intention of defrauding creditors.  However, there is no fraud if the couple merely protects the innocent spouse from a preexisting debt. The debtor spouse will continue to be liable for the debt under the law, but the innocent spouse’s present assets and future portion of the estate will not be available to pay the debt.

       

      A Premarital Agreement can help clarify the couple’s financial picture, remove anxiety about potential disputes and misunderstandings and assist them in planning their financial future.    Although the idea of a Prenuptial Agreement may seem “unromantic”, the result of having a well-planned and valid agreement may be harmony and peace of mind.

       

      If you are considering a marriage and think that a Premarital Agreement may be appropriate, take the time to have a consultation with an attorney who has knowledge and experience in the areas of family law and estate planning.  You will then be able to make an informed decision about what is best for your future.

       

      Kalish Law Office has been drafting Premarital Agreements for clients in Conroe, The Woodlands, Cypress, and Houston for over 26 years.

       

       

       

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      28 Sep 2010

      Mediation and How it Can Help Your Case

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      Mediation can be either court-ordered or agreed.  In mediation, an impartial observer listens to the parties and helps them talk with each other to find points on which they can agree.

      Mediation often leads to settlement of the case.  When it doesn’t, it will usually provide useful information and help the parties clarify issues.  The mediator will insist on an attitude of respect. The parties are not allowed to use abusive language but are allowed to state their opinions and feelings in a controlled manner. 
      A skilled mediator can quickly draw out the most important issues in the case. In addition to the statements made by each party at the outset, the mediator will be listening carefully for other “minor” issues that may not be minor ones after all.  The parties will discuss the reasons behind their positions and they are often surprised to find that they better understand their opponent.

      Mediation works especially well in family law and business cases, although it is used in a variety of other cases as well.  When it is court-ordered it is not an option.  It is often voluntarily chosen because it gives the parties an opportunity to “have their say” in a less restrictive and rule-oriented venue than a courtroom, and has a very real possibly of leading to a reasonable settlement. 

       

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      9 Aug 2010

      Gathering Proof for Your Divorce, Custody or Modification Case: Kalish Law Blog

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      If you are, or may be involved in a case involving divorce, custody, visitation, or child support, it is not too soon to begin gathering proof. It is easy to forget to save things or document events when you are caught up in your day-to-day routine. Here are some ideas about what may help you later on.

      1.      Potential Divorce: Bank statements, credit cards bills, deeds. Any documentation showing assets or liabilities. Copies of insurance policies, 401k plans, your spouse's paycheck stubs, employment contract, profit-sharing plan, and copies of your tax returns for the last 5 years. Keep copies of these important documents in a safe place, especially if you believe that your spouse might try to keep them from you. Even though you will be able to request them through the discovery process once you have filed the divorce, it will cost time and money. If you are able to get them in advance you will know what you are dealing with financially and will be able to provide your attorney with copies at your first meeting. If you are alleging infidelity fraud you should keep copies of evidence to support your charges. And, most importantly, if you are physically abused, police and/or doctor's reports will provide evidence that it was severe enough for you to take action to protect yourself.

      2.      Child Custody/Visitation or Modification of Custody/Visitation: Photos, letters, and emails that support your position about what would be in the best interests of your children. If your child's other parent is not a good caretaker or lives a lifestyle that is dangerous to the children, keep a diary of events and information with dates and times. Remember to practice good parenting skills, which means not degrading the other parent to the children, not asking the children to spy on their other parent, and not giving them information that is unnecessary or inappropriate for them to hear.

      3.      Child Support: Keep good records on the amount of child support you received or paid. Be ready to show expenses to document what the children need, or how those needs are already being met. Keep good records of your own earnings and expenses to help demonstrate the financial picture of the family. If your child is a child with special needs, be ready to demonstrate those needs with school records, medical or psychological records, or witnesses such as tutors or teachers.

      The most important thing to remember is that you will need to tell your story to someone who doesn't know you or your family. Do your best to lay the story out in a chronological, understandable fashion. The more objective proof that you present, the better chance you will have of settling or winning your case. A coherent, organized file will help attorneys, mediators, and the judge to understand your story and your goals.

      Don’t be afraid to have a consultation appointment with a family law attorney as a means of “advance planning.”   Your decision regarding whether or not to take legal action is a serious one, one that will affect your life and the lives of others.   If you are having trouble making a decision, remember that “inaction” will have benefits and consequences just like “taking action” will.  For that reason, you should seek information and assistance when you need help understanding options or making a decision.  

       

      At Kalish Law Office in The Woodlands, our divorce and family law attorneys can help you clearly understand your options.

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      28 Jul 2010

      Is it Abuse? Divorce and Family law blog: Kalish Law Office

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      Domestic abuse, also known as spousal abuse, occurs when one person in an intimate relationship or marriage tries to dominate and control the other person.  Domestic abuse that includes physical violence is called domestic violence. (www.helpguide.org)

       Control over another person can be in the form of physical abuse, or it may be emotional.  Control can also be financial, especially when one partner deprives the other partner of basic necessities.  Financial abuse can also occur when one partner keeps all of the family finances a secret, or takes complete control of everything and makes all decisions.

       Men who are victims of abuse, especially physical abuse, may have difficulty admitting it and asking for help.  Abused men need and deserve help.  In fact, men can be particularly vulnerable to abuse because of the stereotypes that exist.  A man in need of help may feel ashamed and vulnerable if he tries to report the abuse to law enforcement or a help center.

       Abuse happens in all economic classes and communities. 

       When one partner is vulnerable due to low self-esteem, a physical or mental disability or handicap, illegal immigration status, or lack the ability to earn his/her own money, an abuser will use that to terrify, frighten and intimidate.

       If you, or someone you know is a victim of abuse, you should be aware of the following:

       

      1. There are shelters and community resources available
      2. You can seek legal help from a private attorney or a non-profit group
      3. Documenting physical abuse by calling the police, taking photos, and seeking medical or psychological care can help prove your case
      4. You can seek legal help to plan ahead, even if you are not ready to take action yet
      5. You should know about safe places that you can go
      6. You can seek a protective order from a court, when appropriate. However, you still must look out for the safety of yourself and your children
      7. If you are an immigrant who is married to a U.S. citizen and have been subjected to battery or extreme cruelty, you may be able to benefit from VAWA (Violence Against Women Act) and apply for residency
      8. Staying "for the sake of the kids" is risky, and your children are at psychological risk, not just physical risk
      9. No one deserves to be abused, ever
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      1 Jul 2010

      Choosing a Lawyer: It's All About Balance

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      Well, here I am, back on one of my favorite subjects, “how to choose a lawyer.”  I guess that the reason that I like to write about this subject is that it is the one that I get asked about most frequently.   


      In choosing a lawyer, as in many other aspects of life, it’s all about balance. 

      You want a lawyer that has a good personality, and one that you enjoy working with or talking to, but one who can represent you aggressively when the situation calls for it.  (You want “Nice” but not “Wimpy”.)

       

      You want someone who is not afraid to stand up for you, and insist on your rights. But you don’t want someone that will argue just for the sake of argument   (“Strong”, not “Beligerent”.)

       

      You want an attorney and staff who are open to your ideas, but able to stand up to you and give you an honest opinion and clear direction. (“Open minded”, not “Wishy-washy”.)  

       

      You want someone who will be responsive to you and will keep you up-to-date. But you don’t want someone who will put everything aside every time any client wants to talk.  (“Responsive”, not “easily distracted”.)

       

      And, while you want someone who you can afford, price shouldn’t be the only criteria.  Look for a reasonable price that falls within the range of what is charged in your geographical area for that type of case, by attorneys with the particular level of experience.  An attorney who refuses to cut the price or service when it will negatively affect your case is actually doing you a favor.   

       

       

       

       

       

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