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      6 Jan 2011

      Remarrying After Divorce: The 30 day Waiting Period in Texas

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      Although many states do not require a divorced person to wait before remarrying, the State of Texas does.  There is a thirty day waiting period. During this time, either party to the divorce can appeal the divorce decree and the divorce will be “reopened”.

       

      In addition, if one of the parties decides not to wait the entire thirty day period and remarries too early, the new marriage is “voidable” and may be challenged by one of the parties to it for a period of time.

       

      In most cases, people can and do wait until at least day 31 to tie the knot again.   

       

      For those who have had a bitter divorce waiting is especially good advice to prevent potential problems from the “ex” spouse.   Texas is a community property state, so any material change in assets during the 30 day period may cause the “ex” spouse to question whether the property was owned prior to the divorce, or rethink other issues (whether there was fidelity during the marriage), rather than moving on to the future.

       

      In some cases, you can ask to have the 30 day waiting period waived by a judge. A Texas divorce attorney can help you with that.

       

      In short, under Texas law in most situations it is best to hold off until at least day 31 to remarry, even if you and your spouse have lived apart for quite awhile.

       

       

      The Kalish Law Office in The Woodlands, Texas has been representing divorce and family law clients for over 26 years.  Contact us at Inquiries@kalishlawtexas.com or 281-363-3700. www.kalishlawtexas.com

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      1 Oct 2010

      What is Collaborative Law and Can I Use it for my Divorce?

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      In collaborative law, the parties and their attorneys agree to resolve a divorce case using information exchange, private meetings, and creative solutions.  Information is freely shared. The parties sign a collaborative agreement, and they agree not to go to court, or threaten court. 

      In collaborative law, there are a series of meetings. The parties and their attorneys, and possibly other professionals who are giving information, will attend. This is different that mediation, in which the mediator (an impartial third party), is in charge of the session and tries to bring about a settlement that day, if possible.

      Other professionals may be consulted during the process, including CPAs, appraisers and financial advisors.  Some of these professionals may be familiar with the collaborative process and have had training or experience with it as well.

      Once the parties have gathered and shared the information, the attorneys will prepare a divorce agreement.  The agreement will be presented to the family law judge and signed by him/her so that it will be legally binding and the couple will be legally divorced.

      The process can be used in any divorce, and it works especially well in cases where the marital estate has a high value or there are complex marital assets such as royalties, foreign property, real estate holdings, pension plans, trusts and the like.  In such cases, the collaborative process is often the most financially feasible, because it saves time and legal fees and focuses on preservation of the parties’ assets.

      If the collaborative process does not work, the parties’ attorneys are not allowed to continue to represent them. The parties must start over, with new attorneys.
      When choosing a collaborative attorney, it is wise to choose a firm with experience in collaborative law.


      Kalish Law Office has been representing clients in the divorce process for over 26 years. We have experience and confidence in collaborative law, mediation, and other creative and alternative methods of resolving disputes.

       

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      28 Sep 2010

      Mediation and How it Can Help Your Case

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      Mediation can be either court-ordered or agreed.  In mediation, an impartial observer listens to the parties and helps them talk with each other to find points on which they can agree.

      Mediation often leads to settlement of the case.  When it doesn’t, it will usually provide useful information and help the parties clarify issues.  The mediator will insist on an attitude of respect. The parties are not allowed to use abusive language but are allowed to state their opinions and feelings in a controlled manner. 
      A skilled mediator can quickly draw out the most important issues in the case. In addition to the statements made by each party at the outset, the mediator will be listening carefully for other “minor” issues that may not be minor ones after all.  The parties will discuss the reasons behind their positions and they are often surprised to find that they better understand their opponent.

      Mediation works especially well in family law and business cases, although it is used in a variety of other cases as well.  When it is court-ordered it is not an option.  It is often voluntarily chosen because it gives the parties an opportunity to “have their say” in a less restrictive and rule-oriented venue than a courtroom, and has a very real possibly of leading to a reasonable settlement. 

       

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      25 Sep 2010

      Words of Encouragement from Eleanor Roosevelt

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      Eleanor Roosevelt was born October 11, 1884 in New York.

       

      She was born into a wealthy, yet dysfunctional family.  Her father was an alcoholic, and her mother struggled with depression. Eleanor was forced to take on responsibilities of helping to care for the family at a very young age.  Her mother often spoke cruelly to her, and made fun of her looks.  Both of Eleanor’s parents were in ill health during her early childhood.

      Yet Eleanor had a strong and determined spirit that could not be extinguished.  Her education in London opened up new avenues of learning and experience and she became a great humanitarian and civic leader in her own right, even prior to her marriage to Franklin Delano Roosevelt.


      The following are my favorite Eleanor Roosevelt quotes:

       

      “A woman is like a tea bag- you never know how strong she is until she gets in hot water”

       

      “Learn from the mistakes of others. You can’t live long enough to make them all yourself”

       

      “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”

       

      “It takes as much energy to wish as it does to plan.”

       

      After the death of her husband, she became a delegate to the United Nations National Assembly and drafted the “Universal Declaration of Human Rights.” 

       

       

      Kalish Law Office has been representing individuals, businesses and families in The Woodlands, Texas area for over 26 years.  

       

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      3 Jun 2010

      The Texas Paternity Registry: Voluntary Admission of Paternity

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      Many states now have a paternity registry database.  In Texas, that database is maintained by the Texas Department of State Health Services- Vital Statistics.  

      If a man has fathered a child with a woman who was not married to him, he can file a "Voluntary Acknowledgment of Paternity" with this Texas Department. By filing this document, he will establish his right to be notified of any legal procedings involving the child, including adoption.  This document will establish the man's willingness to accept his paternity of the child.  

      In order to file the form, it is necessary to get the form from an individual who is certified by the Texas Department of State Health Services.   Once the form is obtained, explained, and properly signed, it can be filed with the Department. Information on how to get the form in your area can be found by calling 866-255-2006.

      If a biological father is not listed on the birth certificate, does not visit or support the child, was not married to the mother of the child, and does not file an acknowledgment of paternity, he is in the most vulnerable position possible for having his parental rights removed, possibly without his knowledge.   Waiting for "the right time" to look for his child is a risky strategy if he hopes to have a parent-child relationship.

      The laws attempt to balance the rights of the biological father to know and parent his child with the rights of the child to move forward with a valid adoption.

      The Texas Department of Vital Statistics has an excellent page with many frequently asked questions about paternity, adoption, and birth certificates.  It can be found at http://bit.ly/9s13db and is an excellent resource.  There are currently several bills before the U.S. Congress relating to adoption, birthparents, and the establishment of a national paternity registry.

       

       

       

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      25 May 2010

      Guidance for Executors: Settling the Estate

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      A will must be probated in order to be declared valid. A will that is sitting in a drawer at home won't be of any help to the beneficiaries!

       

      Probate is the process of proving the will in court. The "Applicant" (the person who filed for the probate) offers testimony. The Applicant is usually also the Executor. The judge then issues an order declaring it to be a "valid" will.

       

      A female Executor is known as an "Executrix."

       

      If the will names the Executor/Executrix as an "Independent" one, that means that there will be minimal involvement by the court. This makes the probate process more efficient and less costly. If the will does not specify, in some cases, the Executor can still ask for, and be granted, an Independent Administration.

       

      Once the will has been probated and the Letters Testamentary issued, it is time for the Executor to gather the assets, pay the debts and then distribute the remaining property.

       

      If you have been appointed as Executor/Executrix and have been to your final hearing, you can use this general checklist to keep you on target.

       

      1.  Be sure to order enough copies of the Letters Testamentary and Death Certificates.  You will usually need to part with one copy of each in order to transfer each bank account, retirement account, investment account, and life insurance policy.  You can contact the various benefit plans, financial institutions, and insurance companies in advance to have necessary packages with transfer forms sent to you.

       

      2.  Be prompt with any documents that must be filed with the probate court after the final hearing. If you have an Independent Administration, there will be minimal paperwork. If you have a Dependent Administration, there will be much more work to do. There are strict deadlines for these actions, which will include some or all of the following; preparing an Inventory and Appraisement, giving proper notice to creditors and beneficiaries, and filing certain affidavits. If you have been represented by a lawyer in the case, communicate with your attorney about the details of what you will need to complete.

       

      3.  Once you get your Letters Testamentary, you may need to set up a bank account for the estate. You will place the funds that belong to the estate in this account, and will make disbursements from it.  Get a Federal Tax ID number for the estate, when indicated. (if you are the surviving spouse and sole beneficiary some of this may not apply to you.)

       

      4.  Be sure to pay the creditors of the estate prior to making final distributions to the beneficiaries.   You may be able to negotiate certain debts of the estate.  Review credit card charges and medical bills to be sure they are accurate.

       

      5.  Get documents prepared to transfer title to property. This includes items such as real estate, vehicles and boats.  File these documents with the proper governmental authority and be sure that the way you are handling it shows a "clear title" to the ultimate beneficiary of the property.

       

      6.  Finally, be sure to keep good records, even if you are the estate's sole beneficiary. 

       

      If you need help, don't hesitate to ask your attorney, accountant, or banker to assist you.

       

       

       

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      17 May 2010

      Notifying Your Spouse That You Are Filing for Divorce

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      If you are considering filing for divorce, you might be feeling anxious about how to tell your spouse, or how s/he will react when “served” with notice of the case.   There may be no “good way” to notify your spouse; however, you do have some options. 

       

      Just tell him/her.   This is a good option for people who are good at discussing and solving problems together, when they both expect the divorce to happen, when both people want the divorce,  and for couples who consider themselves to be  “friends” above all else.  This is a terrible option for marriages in which there is actual, historical, or potential violence.  

      Involve your spouse in “information gathering.” The office of a therapist and/or divorce attorney is places where you can gather information and discuss your legal and emotional options. You may choose to invite your spouse to go with you, and choose one of these places to make it known that you would like to file.

       

      Hire your attorney and have the attorney send a letter.   This may be less intimidating than being “served”.  The law firm that you hired to represent you can send your spouse a letter by mail, informing him/her that there is a divorce action being filed and requesting that s/he respond with the name of the attorney that will be representing him/her.  In some cases a certified letter may be requested by your lawyer from the District Clerk’s office where the suit is filed.

       

      Have a constable or process server formally serve your spouse.  This is the only option in many cases, for instance when there may be violence or unacceptable drama, or there is a need to get the legal proof of service on file to move the case quickly.   Be sure to communicate well with your lawyer and his/her staff prior to the service. 

       

      Be Aware…....

       

      Although the more “informal” methods may be fine for giving your spouse knowledge of the divorce, you may still have to have him/her served formally in order to provide proof to the court that s/he has been legally notified of the case.   

       

      Caution:

       

      If there is a potential problem (spouse trying to hide from service, potential violence or scenes, disruption of a workplace or children being there to witness the service), it is even more important to share information with your attorney’s office and possibly the person serving your spouse as well.   

       

       

       

       

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      13 May 2010

      An Ad Litem or Amicus Attorney in Case Involving a Child

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      When a lawsuit involves a child, a judge may appoint another attorney to make recommendations or to represent the child (or children). These attorneys are called "Amicus Attorneys" or "Attorneys Ad Litem." This can happen in a divorce case, paternity case, or post-divorce modification and visitation case, and in termination and adoption cases.

      Amicus Attorneys are appointed to make recommendations to the court. Ad Litem attorneys seek to actually represent the child.

      In general, whenever the custody, visitation, access to, and support of a minor child or children are involved, either an Amicus or an Ad Litem (but not both) may be appointed.

      Parents who are involved in these cases are often surprised to hear that a separate attorney will be involved, and don't understand why. They are also surprised to find out that they will usually have to pay all, or part of the attorney's fees. They sometimes feel suspicious or resentful, believing that the Amicus or Ad Litem attorney will be looking for reasons to criticize them or their parenting skills.

      These attorneys are not the enemy, and are usually polite, well-spoken, caring individuals. They genuinely look for the best for the child and represent their young clients with energy and enthusiasm. They are specifically trained in what they do, and usually do it because they care about children.

      In some situations, one of the parties to the suit may request that the judge appoint one of these attorneys.

      Here are some examples of when an Amicus Attorney may be appointed/requested:

      1. Mom and Dad are divorcing and have 3 children. The divorce is not a friendly one and Mom and Dad cannot agree on joint custody. In addition, each parent is fighting for primary custody and alleges that the other parent does not maintain a good, stable atmosphere for the children. Each parent has an attorney representing him/her. Although they are good lawyers and genuinely care about what happens to their client's children, their obligation is to their clients. The judge in the case appoints an Amicus Attorney to review the case, interview the children and parents, and make recommendations as to the "best interests of the children". The judge orders that the parents split the cost of the attorney's fees.
      2. Mom and Stepdad file a petition to terminate the rights of Biological Dad to Mom's 6-year-old child so that Stepdad can adopt her. Biological Dad and Mom were never married; he doesn't support the child, and hasn't seen her since she was born. Mom thinks BioDad may have a substance abuse problem. She and Stepdad have been married for 4 years and Stepdad is the only Dad the child has ever known. BioDad isn't sure whether he wants to sign relinquishment papers or not. Judge appoints an Amicus Attorney to speak with all the parties and make a recommendation on whether or not it is in the child's best interest to keep BioDad in her life. The Judge orders Mom and BioDad to split the fees.
      3. Aunt is raising her Niece. Aunt's Sister (BioMom) gave birth to the Child 13 years ago when she was 17. BioMom is a good person who thinks often of her daughter and visits now and then, but has not been able to provide a stable home or regular support. The Child worries that someday her BioMom will take her away and wants to have the same last name as the other children in the home. Aunt visits an attorney to discuss various legal options on how to handle the situation. She decides to file a suit seeking full legal custody for herself without terminating the BioMom's rights. BioMom agrees. Aunt's attorney files the suit and also requests that the Judge appoint an Ad Litem attorney to represent the Child. The Judge does so. Aunt has agreed that she will pay the attorney's fees.

      If you are a party to a case in which one of these attorneys is appointed, you should cooperate with that attorney. Be available to speak or visit, and provide any requested information, plus any information that will help him/her form a recommendation. Remember that the judge will listen carefully to any recommendations made for the best interests of the children.

      You can also help by keeping your attitude positive, avoiding making negative remarks about others involved in the case, and letting your child know that s/he should not be afraid to talk with the Amicus or Ad Litem attorney.

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