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      13 Dec 2011

      Representing yourself in court? Here's the Best Advice I can give You

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      I am a lawyer, so naturally my mind doesn’t work like a normal person’s mind.  I don’t know if I have always been that way or if law school created that situation.  

      If someone asks me a question that they think is “straightforward” and deserves a simple “yes” or “no”, my answer is often “it depends”.   When I am given a fact or piece of information, I can often think of 10 or 15 questions without even trying.

      Despite my ability to go on and on, I am going to try to be simple, quick and straight to the point about this issue: If someone said to me, “I am going to represent myself in court?  Quick, what should I look out for?” my answer would be one word- Procedure.

      Sure, I could write several pages about being “pro se” (which just means representing yourself).  And I am filled with legal knowledge, if I do say so myself. But the best piece of advice I could think of would be this: pay attention to procedure.

      I am pretty sure that anyone who is representing himself or herself in court already knows facts about their situation, knows that they should do some research, and knows that just hoping it will go away is not a good plan.  But where many people get “tripped up” is in ignoring legal procedure.  Here’s why:   There are different procedural rules depending on whether the case is state or federal, agency or courtroom, and which type of law.  The procedures vary depending on the state, the county, the type of court, and even the individual judge!

      Procedural rules determine things like what legal pleadings must include, how a party is served notice of a lawsuit, how long parties have to respond, how parties give notice to each other, how hearings/trial are scheduled, how “discovery’ is done and answered, whether parties must go to mediation or not, when appeal is permitted and how it is done, how money is collected when a judgment is won, and many, many more things.  

      My point here is this: if you are representing yourself it isn’t enough to just know what the suit is about and something about that type of law. You must also know about the procedure that applies to your case and how to follow those rules.   A trip to the clerk’s office or a call to the staff in the court where your case is filed are good places to begin.  Also, be sure to read every line of every paper that you receive from the court or the clerk’s office (or administrative office or agency) in your case! 

      Kalish Law Office, The Woodlands, Texas. “Passionate, Professional and Personal. We Make the Difference”.   www.kalishlawtexas.com  

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      2 Jun 2011

      Avoiding Adoption Scams

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      This is an excellent article which was just posted on the National Council for Adoption website.  Very good, practical advice on  how to spot and avoid adoption scams.

      http://bit.ly/myG83E

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      10 May 2011

      How to Protect Yourself From Mortgage Loan Scams- Advice from the State Bar of Texas

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      In some of my other blog posts over the years, I have mentioned the excellent "client page" that is available every month in the Texas Bar Journal.  These articles are available online in pdf format. 

      The April 2011 Client Page is excellent.  It starts by informing us that "The FBI describes mortgage fraud as one of the fastest-growing white collar crimes in America." 

      The article then goes on to describe the various types of scams, how to recognize them, and where to report them.   The article is available in pdf format here: http://bit.ly/j4vpZQ 

      The Texas State Bar also has a pamphlet titled "Loan Modification Scam", which is available by calling 1-800-204-2222 or at www.tyla.org.

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      26 Apr 2011

      Courtroom Behavior 101 for Clients

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      If you have a pending legal case that will require that you attend a trial or hearing, you may be a bit nervous.  That is quite normal, even for people who have been down that road before.   

       

      If you have an uncontested matter (such as an agreed divorce, adoption, or probate case), you won’t have to worry about “the opposition”.  That can make things less stressful, but most people still tend to worry about how they will appear, whether they will become tongue-tied and what to do if they are asked a question and don’t know the answer.

       

      Here are some guidelines to help take some of the worry out of that court appearance:

       

      1. Dress appropriately. No shorts (not even nice dress shorts), no T-shirts or tanks, nothing with a slogan printed on it. Do not chew gum.  Look and feel professional and stand tall.
      2. Don’t forget to turn off your cell phone.  Since it is too easy to assume that it’s on vibrate when it isn’t, it’s best to turn it off altogether.   Nothing angers a judge or bailiff more quickly than a ringing phone blasting away at an inappropriate time.
      3. Watch your nervous habits.  Laughing or smiling inappropriately can be misinterpreted as disrespect and constant throat clearing, humming, or change jingling can take the attention away from the case that is being presented.
      4. When you have a bench trial (trial in front of the judge):  Look the judge in the eyes when you answer him or her. Be respectful and pleasant, even if you don’t like the judge or what’s being said.  If the judge asks you a question directly, answer him or her directly and briefly.
      5. If you have a jury trial: The jury’s perception of you is very, very important.  Be quiet and calm at all times. Do not roll your eyes, shake your head or glare at anyone.   Be calm when communicating with your attorney in the jury’s presence. If you appear to be argumentative with your attorney (who is on your side), the jury members may decide that you are probably an unreasonable or difficult person to deal with in general.
      6. Take your time in answering questions.  Listen carefully to the whole question and answer as directly and briefly as you can.  Speak up loudly enough to be heard.   Speak distinctly and if you really don’t understand the question, say so.
      7. Relax when appropriate.  When you are in court for a happy occasion (finalization of an adoption, a name change, or to solidify an agreement that has been reached in a long-pending case), it is perfectly fine to smile, look happy, respond to congratulations from the judge and attorneys, and let out a big sigh of relief. 

       

      The above guidelines can help you make your courtroom visit less stressful.  If things don’t go exactly as you planned, promise yourself to learn from the experience and do better if there is a next time.

       

      The attorneys at the Kalish Law Office have been accompanying their clients to court since 1984. Located in The Woodlands, Texas, north of Houston. 281-363-3700

       

       

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